Celebrating Raegan Amily's 7th

 & fun at the cabin with family for the weekend!

     Yes, 7!  How in the world did our baby girl grow up?!?  I'm NOT happy about how fast time flies but then I remember she still has accidents because sometimes she's too busy to stop to potty.  As frustrating as that can be sometimes, I'm thankful for that reminder that she's not all grown up yet & still needs her mommy every single day!  What else sparks my mind when thinking of Raegan?  Well, we often call her Fruit Loop.  She doesn't meet strangers.  She's very brave as far as talking to people about what's on her mind.  In fact, you never know what she will say.  For example, last year alone she told her Enrichment school class that her Daddy dances naked at home, her Meme went blind, & that her parents flew to New York City but would be back to pick her up by lunch.  She is happy almost to a crazy fault.  Nothing rattles her.  She has no worries.  She is our ray of sunshine.  The world can feel like it's turned upside down & she will be sure to point out something wonderful right out of the blue.  Compliments are her thing.  She will tell you how she loves your hair on your worst hair day or how beautiful you are when you are still in your worn out pjs.  She spreads joy that is sure to cause you to smile no matter the circumstances.  Raegan is also very tenderhearted.  She will cry instantly at the very hint that she may be in trouble.  About a week or so ago, Raegan began asking about salvation right after our church's Kidz Crusade.  This went on for several days (& nights).  She decided to pray one night at home with us & her siblings gathered around her.  What a lovely answer to our prayers!  She has told most everyone she has come into contact with & already mentioning being baptized.  Raegan just began Kindergarten this year along with her 2 little brothers.  I waited a year longer than normal before beginning so she would be "ready."  This has proved perfect for her.  She has finally shown an interest in learning & excels!  Happy 7th Raegan Amily!  We love living life with you!!!

A Tribute To Our Very Own Ruby Jewel

 Our 1st picture with Granny as a wedded couple 

& our last picture with Granny

(not our last visit but our last picture):

     Granny is exactly what she was to all of us.  1st to Nathan but also to me & our kiddos.  She was definitely one of a kind, a rare Jewel.  I 1st met her in our dating days.  I didn't have to grow to love her.  It came automatically.  She opened her heart right up & made room for me.  Her spirit was genuine.  You never had to question her love.  It was evident in her every single word & deed.
     We were blessed to begin our marriage living directly across the dirt lane from her for over 10 years.  We shared land, well water, gardens, meals, & too many hours worth of conversations to count.  She put up our 1st vegetables & gifted us our 1st table.  She was my cooking expert & who we borrowed from.  Her pantry was always stocked & fully loaded.  Whatever I was out of, she always had plenty to spare & happy to help out too!  Instead of going home, we always took our babies straight from the hospital directly to Granny's!  The pictures we have of her holding our newborns always showed her proud smile, especially holding her namesake child~our Marianna Jewel.  She bought us the only high chair our 5 children ever used here in our home.  They have all grown up running over to her house daily, riding bikes in her driveway, picking flowers to gift her, etc.  It has definitely been our pleasure.  We'll never forget her afternoon visits driving over on her golf cart as we would all be out in the yard & garden.  Seeing her in route was always a special treat.  The best memories are of all of us rocking on her porch or sitting around her kitchen table.  She loved visits & we loved soaking up her wisdom.  In all of our time spent with Granny, I have never once heard her say a cross word about anyone or anything.  Her life truly radiated Jesus' love.  
     Ruby Jewel lived 94 years.  Her mind was still good right up 'til the end.  Our last conversation with her was on Friday night before she went to bed & made her crossing the next morning.  Her life was such a blessing.  Words cannot describe her.  She will forever be missed but never forgotten!  Until forever, we will remember her every time I fry salmon patties (her favorite of my cooking) & Nathan bakes pecan pie (her favorite of his).  In fact, we cooked that for lunch in her honor the very Saturday she passed & spoke of her around our table.
     I'd never lost anyone so close to me as Granny was.  Not only was she our Granny but also our friend.  As sad as it has been, I know in my heart that she is in a better place & am thankful she lived such a long life with us here on earth.  My life is all the better for knowing her.  Living beside her & being so close was one of my greatest life experiences thus far!  I am forever grateful!!!  Heaven is looking sweeter to us now!

Happy Place Travels

     We LOVE to travel!  Aside from God, it's definitely number 1 on our list!  In fact, we can travel together with God, so what could be more amazing?  Our last travel brought us to the beautiful, quaint St George Island, Florida with my entire family.  We love the small island with white beaches & clear ocean waters.  We enjoy the rental homes with private pools & beach access that isn't busy.  Bringing along a golf cart & bicycles allows us to take daily rides to the local park or ice cream parlor.  The BEST part of it all is just being together without any particular responsibilities.  I love waking up to the view of the sea & read or write or both.  The biggest decision of each day is who is going to the pool & who is going to the beach.  What's not to love???

 My beach read that I cannot say too many great things about:

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Deadline: September 1, 2016

The Best Yes GIVEAWAY

     Recently I was blessed to spend a full week on island time reading "The Best Yes" by Lysa Terkeurst.  When I was skimming through it, the deciding factor was the quote on the 1st page I flipped to,

Wow, that really hit home for me!  I dropped it in my cart & the rest is history.

         To review this book for you would be a great injustice.  I'll tell you what the cover says, "I'm a little overwhelmed & a lot worn out."  Her words soaked into my soul like a sponge.  I found myself pondering them even when they weren't in my hands.  My naturally wired OCD self realizes that she's exactly right when she says, "Saying yes all the time won't make me Wonder Woman.  It will make me a worn-out woman."

     "What about you?  Don't get so locked in to your overwhelming schedule that you haphazardly spend your soul."  WAKE UP!  "It's time to flip that!"

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Deadline: September 1, 2016

The Most Wonderful Week of the Year

     Another count down calendar has ended, another youth camp is in the books!  We ALL had a blast!  We absolutely LOVE it & look forward to next year already!  Pictured above is our children with a few of their best friends.  This year I didn't go crazy taking pictures.  My oldest are usually surrounded by friends having fun.  Our children have scheduled activities all day long including VBS classes, choir, talent, games, comedy shows, skits, arts & crafts, etc.  Nathan & I help with the snowcone & concession stand.  It's crazy hot outside & the kids line up for those during afternoon playtime.  The morning & night church services are the highlight.  Morning services are only for the youth while the other age groups are in VBS classes.  The services are smaller & casual.  Nathan & I love sitting in on them!   The messages are always stirring, & we love to take part in the youth pouring their tender hearts out in worship & alter services.  At night, the church services are more formal.  The children & youth choir sing.  The message is usually illustrated & geared toward the youth.  Afterglow are skits the youth teams preform before midnight.  They are either hilariously funny or heart wrenching serious.  Our Kaley has been old enough to participate in them & with the youth choir for 2 years now.  Last year she really seemed shy.  This year she had much more fun with it!  I love her participation & tender heart.  We always leave encouraged in the Lord!  It's a full week centered around Him, spent with special friends!  That equals the best vacation ever just minutes away from our home!

Mid Summer Check-Up: For The Love of Goals

     

     Summer time fun is in full swing!  Our schedule is much more relaxed.  We sleep later & plan even more travel & fun activities than usual.  We make countdown calendars for youth camp & the big family beach vacation!  However, I just can't stand to throw out our routine all together!  I thrive on organization.  I must stay focused & have goals.  Academics will not be our top priority but I do want to fit in a little in certain areas.  That will leave more time for the most important things, more spiritual & family time!
     First, we all gathered to plan our summer 2016 goals at the end of May.  Of course, Nathan & I had much of the say but were surprised by the kid's input too.  Each family member (according to ability) has Bible reading & scripture writing or memorization for which they are personally responsible for.  Not long ago I was reminded by an elder that if we fail to plan time for God & His word & record what we've read, it becomes too easy to do much of nothing.  Nathan works full time & set his other goals related to his work in the shop.  Reading is something I love, so one of my goals is to read old unread books or rid my stash of them.  The rest of my goals revolved around cleaning out & decluttering.  I certainly didn't over do that for summer break.  I just have a few areas I'd like to get around to tidying up, & certain things no one can really help me do, such as my closet.  Hoarding up clothes that I don't & will not wear is just ridiculous when someone would use them.  Kaley enjoys cooking & was excited to take over snack time.  It gives her an opportunity to plan & serve up fun, new snacks & also lightens my to do list.  She also agreed to take full responsibility for our few pets & plants for this summer.  Marianna is the animal lover & main care giver usually but has lately been getting burned out with all of it.  Instead we urged her to set reading goals since she doesn't ever read for fun.  She likes the Junie B. Jones books & has read a dozen this past school year.  Now she must finish the rest of the series.  They are funny & short & actually under her reading level, so it won't kill her, right?  We'll see!  The little ones pretty much get a free pass to play except for a few academics that I think are important for them to master before beginning Kindergarten.  A few family goals were also established for us to accomplish together such as clean out the barn & the playroom.

     Next, we altered our normal schedule:

Our Family’s Summer Schedule

9:00~Rise & Shine

Breakfast

10:00~Morning Chores: Clean-Up Breakfast, Get Ready For the Day, Make Beds, Pick-Up, Start Washing Clothes, etc… 

11:00~Individual Prayer Time & Devotional

        Lunch                                                  

        Play Time                                                    

2:30~Pick-Up & Story/Reading Time        

        Learning Time                                                

       Snacks by Kaley                                    

4:30~Wednesdays~Get Ready for Church
Afternoon Chores: Tuesdays~Dust & Vacuum
Thursdays~Lysol, Windex, Sweep, & Mop

Fridays~Vehicles, Meal Planning, & Grocery Shopping

Saturdays~Outside & The Shop’s Weekly Clean-Up

6:00~Family Time   

7:00~Baths, Final Pick-Up, & Laundry          Sundays
        Supper                                                    CHURCH
8:30~Family Bible & Prayer Time

9:00~REST                                                                   

     This is what works for us.  We accommodated sleeping later with a morning hour of down time immediately following.  This way we can relax in our pjs together taking the time to enjoy our breakfast & one another's company before our normal morning chores.  It's simple & everything gets done without spending a full day cleaning.  Don't read too much into Learning Time.  It is set aside to last about 30 minutes for each to work on specific goals too.  A special hour of family time is added during summer.  This is when we create art, play board games, do puzzles or those Science experiments that we always meant to do, etc.  We may also be found fishing at the cabin, enjoying a local park, or outside in the yard playing some sort of ball. Of course, the dreaded chore of laundry must be "scheduled."  To be honest, it just gets done whenever throughout the day & thrown on my bed.  At night is when we all gather to fold.  We can at least talk & laugh as we fold & put it away quickly.  Many hands make for light work!  As hard as I try to be grateful for our clothes, the laundry task continues to be boring & mundane for me.  It's what I put off the most.  It really helps that everyone is willing to pitch in.  Ms. Cheryl is my God send every week for ironing.  For that I am truly thankful!!!  We may would all drown in a sea of clothes around here if she didn't bail us out!  The rest is self explanatory.

     Any ideas?  What works for you?  I always love to hear new ideas!!! 

& Don't Forget:

          

Be encouraged!  Prioritize the important tasks & then add the necessary chores & also the hard things!  NEVER be afraid to bend or tweak your schedule to fit your family's needs.  By the 2nd day, I changed mine.  It's what will set you apart & make you successful!  Just thinking about changing something never accomplished anything!  If it did, I'd surely be skinny & rich!  ;) Lol

Mid Summer CHECK-UP

     Mid July brings our family into the reality that summer is nearing an end.  We will slowly begin a relaxed school schedule in August before diving in deep come September.  I just reread our family's 2016 summer goals.  I was extremely pleased to see that we were making great progress for the most part & have not completely fallen off of the wagon!  Nathan is working as hard as always.  I have cleaned out closets & decluttered our home.  Yay me!  Our new schedule is really working for us.  Things are neat & tidy without us killing ourselves around here day in & day out.  There are a few areas I have failed.  We are staying up later & sleeping later, & some things I forgot all about!  Does anyone else ever do that?  Research fun ideas, buy the books & supplies you need, stack them up somewhere for later because life is so busy...later didn't happen!  That's what is great about writing down goals.  You can check back on your progress & remind yourself of your priorities.  As always, some things will just go undone.  That's okay too.  Remember they are goals & not mandatory minimums!  

     The kids are loving summer!  They have done lots of swimming here in HOT south GA!  We have also taken several day trips to the beach since it's a short ride away.  Youth camp has come & gone (pictures to post soon hopefully) & now their countdown calendar for the annual family beach vacation is winding down too!  Lots of packing to get done rather quickly.  This summer has been awesome thus far!

This video was too funny not to share!  My thoughts exactly:

     If summer has flown by without a thought, I encourage you to plan at least 1 special outing for family time, read a good book aloud together, & definitely take time to read & memorize a few Bible scriptures!  ENJOY!

Tragedies Dare Us To Live Loudly & Soak Up The Moments!

     The view from my recliner is absolutely stunning on this hot summer evening.  The kids are playing so hard together on their new playset.  It's not even complete yet.  Notice the last piece is still lying on the grass.  They don't care.  They hook up the water hose & drag it over to pour down the slide.  They also work together to drag the trampoline over & hook up a sprinkler underneath.  I watched the struggle & refrained from running to the rescue.  I literally laughed out loud.  

     If you want to look closely & "police" the snapshots, you will in fact notice that the little ones have shucked off half of their clothes.  They lie around in wet heaps.  Grass is stuck to their wet selves.  I am not even stressing about it.  They are kids having fun in their own backyard.  Actually, I am in LOVE with this view!  

     What really gets me though is the squeals of excitement!  I can hear them laughing hysterically!  They are enjoying something so simple & responding so profoundly.  They are living loudly, soaking up the moment with their whole hearts!  They have not a care in the world.  

     To witness is sheer joy to this mother's heart.  I couldn't help but take a few candid shots.  They never even slowed to notice.  This went on so long that I urged Nathan to sneak off to the golf course alone.  We usually all go.  I walk, the kid's play, he hits.  Not today.  Today, he could actually enjoy some silence & play more seriously after working so hard all day in his shop for us to have.  The house was quiet & also miraculously spic & span.  My heart overflows.  I list the sights & sounds in my gratitude journal.  I can forever look back & recall this moment.  I turn on my playlist of uplifting music.  I cook supper in our still home.  I let them play until dark begins to set in.  Yes, it's almost bedtime by then.  I carry out the kid's shampoo & towels.  I have them all soapy down & rinse right under the water hose just like we always did after swimming at my grandparent's during the summer.  I laugh as they gasp under the cold water as the temperatures outside finally begin to drop.  Supper sits on my great grandmother's table when we bustle inside.  Nathan hasn't returned yet.  We sit together & enjoy fresh tomato sandwiches with a mountain of bacon.  Nathan's grandmother taught me to deep fry bacon.  I can't hardly cook it any other way without all of us being disappointed.  I think of her & smile.  We are blessed to still enjoy her company on earth.  This is one of the meals they beg for during summer, & this is where I must insert that I am so thankful my children eat most every veggie imaginable!  We talk through my reminiscing thoughts.  In walks Nathan as we finish.  We all stay up later than usual sitting around talking & laughing.  It's just perfect! 

 Another messy, beautiful picture of our summer because we birth 

superheros & believe in their dreams coming true!

     These socks may never come clean.  The faded tricycle is a hand me down from his cousin Ashton.  The rusty swing set sits in my parent's backyard.  The old cape was one made at a birthday party.  You can't tell but he doesn't match either.  His hair isn't combed.  All of that is ok.  His smile is worth a million bucks!

     I just don't feel right about ending without posting how heavy my heart has been & still remains to break for our country & the recent events that have unfolded.  Lives are lost.  We don't get a chance to "redo" or relive the moments we were created for.  It took days of me purposefully dodging the media before I mustered up enough courage to watch the videos of the horrific events unfold.  I have no words.  I can only look up & beg God for mercy & wisdom for such a time as this.  We live in this time to make a difference, to speak out & to live what we believe.  He doesn't call the equipped.  He equips the called.  May my feet run swiftly to stand up for right, to stand against the evils of racism &

do everything I can to bring peace & love.  I feel too small to make any significance in this great big world.  I don't have lots of money nor any fame.  I am unemployed.  I just stay at home with my 5 kids.  I may even be the wrong color.  How ridiculous does that sound?  I don't want what I can't do to handicap me from doing what I can.  God loves & His eyesight isn't bound by race, gender, or uniform we wear on the job.  He sees all.  He loves all.  May my heart & yours be guided by His love.    

Enjoy your life!  Dare to live loudly & soak up the moments!  They're precious!

I believe there are a few more hurting among us that can vouch for that now.