Friday, January 22, 2016

Carry on Warrior


If you blog or have ANY kind of ministry, this post is FOR YOU, but don't go any further until you read this link:

Three Rules for Surviving a Creative Life

I am posting this to all of my blogging & ministry friends.  I couldn't have written it better myself.  We all understand how a thought emerges & grows until shared.  Momastery couldn't have put it better with her quirky poster that's so her.  "Haters gonna hate.  Creators gonna create."  We are not lawyers.  It's God's work.  He can handle it.  Smile & be happy.  Go on living.  That kills haters.  Not responding to their negativity leaves them dumbfounded.  I found this other funny posters that fit to a "T":
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     The funny part is that it's hilariously true.  My personal blog has currently 27,035 reads as I type this.  That changes quickly.  When I started it in 2012 as nudged by the Lord, I had only a few reading each post.  Now with each post, hundreds read it in a few short days or even minutes.  It's nothing to peek to see that nearly 500 people from all over the world indulged themselves.  I am just an ordinary stay at home mom & wife of a minister from a small southern town.  Here everybody knows everybody & even your business when you don't know your own.  ;)  I have a circle of family & friends who probably read it on the occasion & keep up with the happenings of our family of 7 since we don't have much time for any other social media.  Mostly I use my blog's other functions as a way to keep in touch with my favorite blogs & authors.  I do enjoy pouring myself into a good read that challenges me in every way possible.
     As any of you in ministry know, haters are a part of your ministry.  It's just amazing how God uses that as a stepping stone to reach out further.  I never really thought of that until I read Momastery's most recent post.  She responds so perfectly to a question from a disheartened Christian blogger who has been stomped on by haters.  I am reminded of how Jesus' work was also criticized by the "religious" pharisees.  Should I even begin to describe them???  Our road isn't going to be any easier.  Don't let those kind of people put a damper on your fire for God.  He grows a thought inside of you to give away, to share or bless someone else.  I am not writing to please anyone other than God.  No one can stop God's work.  Continue on.  His work is ALWAYS a good work.  Oh, & don't forget to REST good soldier.  He's got this!

Thursday, December 31, 2015

CHRISTmas 2015 & CHEERS for 2016



     Hope everyone had a very blessed Christmas 2015!  This year was filled with many new memories.  As usual, my shopping was completed in our annual shopping spree a few days prior to Thanksgiving.  This allows us time to decorate & enjoy the holidays ahead filled with many parties & time with those we love.  We traveled to the mountains for 6 days but of course came home for the big day.  Christmas Eve is always spent at Candlelight service with my Walker family in the church I grew up in.  It's such a special service that we look forward to every year.  There is just something magical about singing Christmas carols mixed with the Christmas story in candlelight with my family right beside me.  I couldn't imagine spending Christmas morning any other way than with excited kiddos waking up too early to rip into presents & all of our family coming over for Christmas breakfast.  This year it was extra loud & livened up with a karaoke of cousins singing & dancing.  Nothing short of a hilarious show of laughter!
     I'm thinking Christmas is getting to be a bigger & more of an expensive production each year.  Of course with 5 kids, anything can become a big production!  I will have to be the 1st to admit, I love the decorating, shopping, & planning family activities each day.  The festivities began with the preteen & teenage church Christmas party lock in with a night filled with fun & games for our oldest girls.  NO sleeping allowed!  I wasn't there to take pictures but the ones I saw & all the feedback suggested it was nothing short of a HUGE success!  Our local homeschool group gathered for an exciting time for a group party, Mom's only party, & also an exclusive teen party.  Here's a picture of the moms who were able to attend our Mom's Night Out.  I LOVE this group of ladies.  It was such a wonderful evening of great food & fellowship, devotions & tears, & also lots of games with fun & laughter!

This year we were blessed with an advent box from a very dear friend.  It went right along with our Christmas Bible curriculum stories as we counted down the days.  They all absolutely loved lighting the candles!
   
We even ventured back to Aimwell to help retell the Christmas story:

& yes, our Christmas is also filled with too many presents!

     I know, I know...many say Christmas is too commercialized.  It is definitely true that the retailers really hit it big right at the end of their year.  I am one of those shoppers.  It runs in my blood thanks to my sweet mama.  My parents are gracious enough to give us all a Christmas "bonus" & bless us with a fun trip to Atlanta too.  It has been growing for years.  My kids really love it.  We are blessed with so much abundance as is the majority of America.  I can cry a river & live with my heart sinking low thinking about how ungrateful we are & how neglected others are for even bare necessities.  Instead, I choose to rejoice.  I am thankful for what we have.  Not eating does not feed another just as not buying does not provide for one in poverty either.  I do stress over the fact that some don't have.  We do reach out to others to help during this time especially as I'm sure many others do also.  Nothing ever feels sufficient enough though.  We have to find some sort of balance of gratitude & giving in our lives.  That's the hard part.  Always remember it never costs you a dime to smile & live JOYfully.  Share your love with others!
     Tonight as 2015 comes to a close, I am excited about the New Year ahead.  Who doesn't love NEW?  Plans don't have to be too extensive.  Resolutions aren't necessary.  Keep your head in the game, goals in focus, & never loose sight of your vision for your life!  Savor the moments that have passed, learn from the unpleasant ones, & face 2016 with a purpose for making the most amazing memories ever!  CHEERS!

Sunday, November 22, 2015

The Latest News Flash On Us

     Sorry to my readers!  I've been so busy with my own family & my husband's new business that I haven't taken the time to blog lately.  So much has happened & so much is going on...where do I begin?  Over 10 years ago, Nathan was unhappy with his job for various reasons so one day I casually asked him if you can have any job in the world, what would you want to do?  His response was almost immediate.  For the first time ever, he mentioned his dream of doing Taxidermy work.  I was shocked that he had such a quick answer for me.  We dated for what seemed like forever, had celebrated a few anniversaries as newly weds, & already had a toddler.  Why hasn't he talked about this before?  You just have to know Nathan, quiet & a go with the flow kinda guy.  That's the conversation where it all began.
     Before long, I was searching online & making many telephone calls.  Who would've thought that the Telfair County 2001 Salutatorian & Star Student would have called her old high school counselor to find out how to become a Taxidermist?  Lol  I did!  He was the one who guided our decisions & encouraged us to follow the dream.  We researched & researched schools that taught the trade a long ways from home only to conclude that we should order the VHS instruction tapes.  I don't think they even make VHS tapes anymore, but I can't tell you how many hours we watched them together.  For Nathan's birthday, he asked for supplies.  We also invested $3,000 in a storage type building.  He was ready to get to work!  I had never seen him so excited!
      That is where it all began.  The outside of the building matching our home, but the inside was a totally different story.  There was always blood on the linoleum floor, no running water, old rusty freezers in every corner, & a tiny work area in the middle of the floor that we never could keep very organized mainly due to lack of space.  None of that mattered to us though.  He was doing what he loved.  He sported a new smile.  Ten years flew by like it has a tendency to do.  All 5 of our children ran & played in the yard while he learned the trade.  We began to pastor in 2012.  His business was completely outgrowing the tiny building.  Juggling the farm, church, & his shop soon became completely impossible.  Of course, he chose what he loved-doing the Lord's work 1st & then his Taxidermy shop.  Many don't understand or agree with those decisions, & that is ok.  It was his decision to make, & we wouldn't change it for the world!!!
     In 2013, we purchased a 5 acre pecan orchard on the main highway.  May I insert here that we have the most AMAZING friends that love us!  As soon as the foundation was completed, they started showing up from out of state along with Justin Sage from Big J's Construction...
& in just a matter of about 10 days, South GA Taxidermy as you see it here was completed. 
     The grand opening was a success.  Some may have thought the dream was finished but it had only just began.  Years of planning went into this reality.  There would be more to come...& this year Custom Processing was added on.  Now he literally has his original dream come true-a one stop shop, a hunter's dream!  We have even began to carry hunting products!
     Yes, his work load has probably tripled or more, but the whole work day is full of smiles & fun!  We now have employees.  They even talk about it being their favorite job they've ever had & how "Nathan is just so happy!"  Seeing the hunters come in with their trophies & hearing their stories never gets old.  We never realized our little county produced so many great bucks!  Nathan still gets to hunt Mondays-Fridays, but Saturdays are crazy busy here.  We wake early to cook breakfast for our customers & begin our day.  The business he has built for himself is truly amazing!  Of course our Sundays are still spent at church.  We no longer pastor but evangelize & attend a local church when we don't have a scheduled place to preach.  This year more doors have been opened for us to minister than ever before.  It's such a blessing to see lives changing for the better.  God has really blessed us to see miracles in our own lives & also through others.  God has been too good to us!  The zeal Nathan has for God, our family, & working hard at what he loves is a marvel to witness.  He has worked out Nathan's dreams & also given him new ones...so yes, with the good Lord willing, soon there will still be even MORE TO COME!  Maybe I should wonder if he has become obsessed with saving $ for all of his new building projects!  ;)  Since I have spared you all from seeing the taxidermy & processing pictures, look up South GA Taxidermy & Custom Processing's public Facebook page if you would like to see more!

Monday, September 28, 2015

Celebration Weekend~Birthdays Galore

 Kaley Mariah's 13th~Girls ONLY!

     We enjoyed every single minute celebrating with Kaley!  We appreciate everyone who came & made this day special for her.  A big shout out to Meme for making this possible, EE for the beautiful, delicious cakes & Aunt Heather & Ms. Cheryl for helping out too!
Our very own Ms. Cheryl (well actually Meme loans her to us)!
AKA My Children's "Other Mother"  We ALL love her dearly!


Then off we travel to Atlanta for Graham's 3rd~Boys ONLY+mama too!
 Chowing down & watching the show:

     We started the day off at Horsetown buying new boots & boot cut jeans.  Thanks for the investment you made in them Meme & Papa!  Then, off to Medieval Times we go!  It was TONS of fun for all of us!  This was their 1st trip having us to themselves.  The show was amazing, the company even better!  :)  Sometimes I don't know what to do with all these boot wearing, sword fighting, rambunctious boys, but I wouldn't trade the world for them!
     September is always a fun filled birthday month here celebrating our oldest & our youngest.  Kaley's birthday is on the 12th, & Graham's is the 26th.  Both are such a blessing.  Kaley is such a sweet natured young lady.  She is my helper in every way imaginable & always eager to please.  She's definitely a talker & great to share with us her thoughts & feelings.  Graham is our quietest child.  He always sports a smile though.  He makes the funniest faces & is really coming "out of his shell" lately.  I can't wait to see what God has in store for their lives.  I am blessed to be a part of it!  

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Raegan's 6th

Celebrating Raegan style as Princess Elsa
 Raegan's Dream Came True~Visiting Babyland General Hospital
EE's deliciously cute cabbage patch cake made especially for Princess Raegan

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Miracles STILL Happen

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     Nathan is an extremely hard worker.  It seems natural for him to rise before daylight, silently get ready for the day, & slip out of the house without a peep.  Usually he's walking to work right across our yard or either headed out on his next hunting or fishing adventure.  It all depends on the seasons & the weather.  Either way, he's not much on sleeping late or being lazy.  He learned to work ridiculously hard (& overwork) from an unheard of young age as labor on his family's watermelon farms.  Sadly, according to every doctor we have seen, those sacrifices cost him tremendous damage to his joints.
     Nathan loves most every outdoor activity & sports.  He may be just a tad bit on the competitive side.  ;)  He has never been one to sit on the side lines.  He enjoys getting in on the action at whatever event is going on, especially with the church youth & of course with our 5 too.  Even the south GA heat doesn't stop him either.  He'll just chug down water & keep on going!
     Once Nathan reached his teenage years, he began experiencing pain in his wrists & knees that would be common for a man 4 times his age.  He worked right on.  He was never taken the doctor to address the issues.  He just wore a brace from time to time.  The pain would come & go.  Not long into our marriage, he broke his ankle getting off a tractor.  This was the 1st time the situation was addressed.  In a local ER, x-rays confirmed the break in the joint.  That night after he finally drifted off to sleep with the aid of pain medicine, I lay wide awake.  I didn't know what we would do without him being able to work for the rest of the summer in the fields.  We were practically kids ourselves raising 2 little bitty girls with not a dab of savings.  I cried & I prayed.  I begged God to heal him.  The next morning we drove about 3 hours away from our rural area to a specialist from one of the best hospitals around.  After the doctor confirmed the break, he ordered more x-rays.  He explained that he needed to see different angles in order to come up with the best possible plan for surgery.  Nathan was wheeled out.  I sat & waited.  He returned.  Soon the doctor came in carrying the new x-rays, displaying them on a white board side by side with the others.  To all of our amazement, the new x-rays showed no break at all!  It was a miracle!!!  Yes, his ankle was still hurting, swollen, & black but no longer broken!  They allowed us to bring both sets home.  You know how in the Bible days they would erect an alter & name a place in remembrance of a particular time God moved for His people?  We keep them as a sign from God that He is able.    Needless to say, we left amazed!
     Several years passed by.  In an after church basketball match with the youth, Nathan injured one of his weak knees.  Immediately, we gathered around him in prayer.  As the years rolled on, his knees became easily injured.  Playing volleyball with church youth would regularly end with another injury for Nathan.  When we snow skiied, you could count on a major knee injury occurring.  Finally, the pain became an every day challenge.  His knees regularly give way, & he falls just walking around.  We sought opinions from several different specialists & he's been prayed for more times than I can name.  We knew God was able but seemed like surgery was going to be a must this time.  The scariest part was the recovery time of 1 year.  We finally accepted the fact that he would have to hire extra workers for his business instead of being the main guy all the time.  The dates were lining up.  We picked out a doctor.  Our insurance has even approved the procedures.  We would wait until after CHYC since he was the night speaker.  We had one empty week to rest up at home the holiday week of the 4th before the final plans would begin to take shape for him to go under the knife...
     Normal people would just relax at home & enjoy the holiday, right?  Right!  But not us...what do we do?  We unpack from a fun filled (but exhausting) week of youth camp & pack up to head north!  There was a campmeeting with a great children's church program to attend, messages from the Master to deliver, & great friends to fellowship!  Just because Nathan had an upcoming surgery, that doesn't stop him!  We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves at each church!  We were even invited to attend somewhere we had never been before only to experience the power of God touch lives through the message & move in a mighty way in the alter service.  We planned a big 4th for the kids in Helen since we were up that way.  We had tons of fun tubing, picnicking in the park, wading the mountain streams, eating ice cream, & watching an amazing firework show to boot.
     We were encouraged although the surgery seemed to loom on just ahead of us.  Everyday I could tell it stayed on Nathan's mind.  He gave in prayer requests everywhere we went. Even I dreaded going home as the days counted down for I knew what lie ahead.  One night during alter service at a church full of hundreds where we don't regularly attend or know many people, Nathan was approached by an elder gentleman asking his permission to pray for his knee during the alter service.  People were all around the alters praying with one another.  Nathan said no one else gathered around them.  The gentleman just humbly prayed for Nathan's knees.  There were no fireworks, no lightning flashes, no Hollywood sound effects, nothing.  I never even noticed myself.  Soon we all were back at our pews & dismissed.
     A few phone calls came in which called for a change in our schedule & meant for a hard Sunday.  We would now be rising extra early to pack & get the 7 of us ready in time to attend Sunday school & to minister in the morning service in a church in Athens, eat after service with friends, & hit the interstate for a 3 1/2 hour drive west to minister at a youth service in Alabama.  The only thing that made this possible was the hour we would "gain" crossing state lines.  Our minds were focused not only on carrying the messages but also on surviving our day.  At this point, all of us were over tired.  As much as we love to travel, 7 worn out passengers can make for misery.  To be openly honest, $ we had allotted to cover trip expenses were dipping way below our comfort level which also added a dose of stress.  Nothing blew up on the road though.  No one fussed.  It seemed as if a silent fog of sadness entered our van.  Disappointment came tagging along to.  We were doing everything we knew to do & our circumstances were looking bleak.  Quickly, we rolled into AL.  We rushed around in a frenzy getting everyone ready & barely made it to the service on time.  I could tell during his preaching that Nathan wasn't his usual self.  Not only had the long day taken it's toil but no doubt the upcoming days ahead worried his mind.  It was as if a great storm were brewing & we were heading into it instead of away.  After the youth service, we stayed for the supper & games in the gym.  It was after midnight before we headed off to bed.  The next morning we awoke to the frenzy of packing & loading up for the drive home.  Not much was said 'til Nathan broke the silence...
     All of a sudden it just dawned on him that his knee hadn't bothered him a bit since the man had prayed for him.  He began to tell us all what occurred.  He began reminiscing the volleyball game he participated in the night before, how he played harder than he had played in years with no pain.  Suddenly, our long faces turned into smiles of rejoicing.  Only God can do that!  He began poking where his ACL was torn & would normally cause sharp pain.  He was pain free!  Our van filled with praise!  He began calling those close to him that were keeping up with his situation to deliver the amazing news.  Our cell phones began ringing off the hook.  The 4 hour ride home seemed like no time at all.  We rejoiced together!
      Right now I am blessed to watch Nathan & all 5 of our kiddos running around playing ball in the yard.  Their laughter abounds.  He's running & falling in the grass with them.  The smiles are priceless.  It's been several weeks now & still no pain.  He's cancelled his appointments.  No need in going now.  PTL from whom ALL blessings flow!  I can't thank Him enough!  I don't understand why bad things happen but I do know a God who can handle it all!  He is more than sufficient!  He has never let us down!  Our faith is increased in Him!  Whatever you are facing, don't quit before your miracle arrives!  Today could be your breakthrough day & your life could change forever!
MIRACLES DO STILL HAPPEN!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

CHYC 2015

     Just a few pictures from our local youth camp!  We all look forward to attending!  The kids make a countdown calendar each summer in anticipation.  It's basically a full week of morning VBS classes, fun daily activities, & nightly youth services.  For the past 2 years, Nathan has been honored to be the night speaker.  This year hit a record attendance of 433!  I can't say enough wonderful things about it! What can be better than spending a week every year learning, laughing (definitely TONS of laughing), drawing closer to God, & watching hundreds of children & youth establish their relationship with Christ!?!  Nothing shy of our most amazing week of every single year!!!