Sunday, November 22, 2015

The Latest News Flash On Us

     Sorry to my readers!  I've been so busy with my own family & my husband's new business that I haven't taken the time to blog lately.  So much has happened & so much is going on...where do I begin?  Over 10 years ago, Nathan was unhappy with his job for various reasons so one day I casually asked him if you can have any job in the world, what would you want to do?  His response was almost immediate.  For the first time ever, he mentioned his dream of doing Taxidermy work.  I was shocked that he had such a quick answer for me.  We dated for what seemed like forever, had celebrated a few anniversaries as newly weds, & already had a toddler.  Why hasn't he talked about this before?  You just have to know Nathan, quiet & a go with the flow kinda guy.  That's the conversation where it all began.
     Before long, I was searching online & making many telephone calls.  Who would've thought that the Telfair County 2001 Salutatorian & Star Student would have called her old high school counselor to find out how to become a Taxidermist?  Lol  I did!  He was the one who guided our decisions & encouraged us to follow the dream.  We researched & researched schools that taught the trade a long ways from home only to conclude that we should order the VHS instruction tapes.  I don't think they even make VHS tapes anymore, but I can't tell you how many hours we watched them together.  For Nathan's birthday, he asked for supplies.  We also invested $3,000 in a storage type building.  He was ready to get to work!  I had never seen him so excited!
      That is where it all began.  The outside of the building matching our home, but the inside was a totally different story.  There was always blood on the linoleum floor, no running water, old rusty freezers in every corner, & a tiny work area in the middle of the floor that we never could keep very organized mainly due to lack of space.  None of that mattered to us though.  He was doing what he loved.  He sported a new smile.  Ten years flew by like it has a tendency to do.  All 5 of our children ran & played in the yard while he learned the trade.  We began to pastor in 2012.  His business was completely outgrowing the tiny building.  Juggling the farm, church, & his shop soon became completely impossible.  Of course, he chose what he loved-doing the Lord's work 1st & then his Taxidermy shop.  Many don't understand or agree with those decisions, & that is ok.  It was his decision to make, & we wouldn't change it for the world!!!
     In 2013, we purchased a 5 acre pecan orchard on the main highway.  May I insert here that we have the most AMAZING friends that love us!  As soon as the foundation was completed, they started showing up from out of state along with Justin Sage from Big J's Construction...
& in just a matter of about 10 days, South GA Taxidermy as you see it here was completed. 
     The grand opening was a success.  Some may have thought the dream was finished but it had only just began.  Years of planning went into this reality.  There would be more to come...& this year Custom Processing was added on.  Now he literally has his original dream come true-a one stop shop, a hunter's dream!  We have even began to carry hunting products!
     Yes, his work load has probably tripled or more, but the whole work day is full of smiles & fun!  We now have employees.  They even talk about it being their favorite job they've ever had & how "Nathan is just so happy!"  Seeing the hunters come in with their trophies & hearing their stories never gets old.  We never realized our little county produced so many great bucks!  Nathan still gets to hunt Mondays-Fridays, but Saturdays are crazy busy here.  We wake early to cook breakfast for our customers & begin our day.  The business he has built for himself is truly amazing!  Of course our Sundays are still spent at church.  We no longer pastor but evangelize & attend a local church when we don't have a scheduled place to preach.  This year more doors have been opened for us to minister than ever before.  It's such a blessing to see lives changing for the better.  God has really blessed us to see miracles in our own lives & also through others.  God has been too good to us!  The zeal Nathan has for God, our family, & working hard at what he loves is a marvel to witness.  He has worked out Nathan's dreams & also given him new ones...so yes, with the good Lord willing, soon there will still be even MORE TO COME!  Maybe I should wonder if he has become obsessed with saving $ for all of his new building projects!  ;)  Since I have spared you all from seeing the taxidermy & processing pictures, look up South GA Taxidermy & Custom Processing's public Facebook page if you would like to see more!

Monday, September 28, 2015

Celebration Weekend~Birthdays Galore

 Kaley Mariah's 13th~Girls ONLY!

     We enjoyed every single minute celebrating with Kaley!  We appreciate everyone who came & made this day special for her.  A big shout out to Meme for making this possible, EE for the beautiful, delicious cakes & Aunt Heather & Ms. Cheryl for helping out too!
Our very own Ms. Cheryl (well actually Meme loans her to us)!
AKA My Children's "Other Mother"  We ALL love her dearly!


Then off we travel to Atlanta for Graham's 3rd~Boys ONLY+mama too!
 Chowing down & watching the show:

     We started the day off at Horsetown buying new boots & boot cut jeans.  Thanks for the investment you made in them Meme & Papa!  Then, off to Medieval Times we go!  It was TONS of fun for all of us!  This was their 1st trip having us to themselves.  The show was amazing, the company even better!  :)  Sometimes I don't know what to do with all these boot wearing, sword fighting, rambunctious boys, but I wouldn't trade the world for them!
     September is always a fun filled birthday month here celebrating our oldest & our youngest.  Kaley's birthday is on the 12th, & Graham's is the 26th.  Both are such a blessing.  Kaley is such a sweet natured young lady.  She is my helper in every way imaginable & always eager to please.  She's definitely a talker & great to share with us her thoughts & feelings.  Graham is our quietest child.  He always sports a smile though.  He makes the funniest faces & is really coming "out of his shell" lately.  I can't wait to see what God has in store for their lives.  I am blessed to be a part of it!  

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Raegan's 6th

Celebrating Raegan style as Princess Elsa
 Raegan's Dream Came True~Visiting Babyland General Hospital
EE's deliciously cute cabbage patch cake made especially for Princess Raegan

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Miracles STILL Happen

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     Nathan is an extremely hard worker.  It seems natural for him to rise before daylight, silently get ready for the day, & slip out of the house without a peep.  Usually he's walking to work right across our yard or either headed out on his next hunting or fishing adventure.  It all depends on the seasons & the weather.  Either way, he's not much on sleeping late or being lazy.  He learned to work ridiculously hard (& overwork) from an unheard of young age as labor on his family's watermelon farms.  Sadly, according to every doctor we have seen, those sacrifices cost him tremendous damage to his joints.
     Nathan loves most every outdoor activity & sports.  He may be just a tad bit on the competitive side.  ;)  He has never been one to sit on the side lines.  He enjoys getting in on the action at whatever event is going on, especially with the church youth & of course with our 5 too.  Even the south GA heat doesn't stop him either.  He'll just chug down water & keep on going!
     Once Nathan reached his teenage years, he began experiencing pain in his wrists & knees that would be common for a man 4 times his age.  He worked right on.  He was never taken the doctor to address the issues.  He just wore a brace from time to time.  The pain would come & go.  Not long into our marriage, he broke his ankle getting off a tractor.  This was the 1st time the situation was addressed.  In a local ER, x-rays confirmed the break in the joint.  That night after he finally drifted off to sleep with the aid of pain medicine, I lay wide awake.  I didn't know what we would do without him being able to work for the rest of the summer in the fields.  We were practically kids ourselves raising 2 little bitty girls with not a dab of savings.  I cried & I prayed.  I begged God to heal him.  The next morning we drove about 3 hours away from our rural area to a specialist from one of the best hospitals around.  After the doctor confirmed the break, he ordered more x-rays.  He explained that he needed to see different angles in order to come up with the best possible plan for surgery.  Nathan was wheeled out.  I sat & waited.  He returned.  Soon the doctor came in carrying the new x-rays, displaying them on a white board side by side with the others.  To all of our amazement, the new x-rays showed no break at all!  It was a miracle!!!  Yes, his ankle was still hurting, swollen, & black but no longer broken!  They allowed us to bring both sets home.  You know how in the Bible days they would erect an alter & name a place in remembrance of a particular time God moved for His people?  We keep them as a sign from God that He is able.    Needless to say, we left amazed!
     Several years passed by.  In an after church basketball match with the youth, Nathan injured one of his weak knees.  Immediately, we gathered around him in prayer.  As the years rolled on, his knees became easily injured.  Playing volleyball with church youth would regularly end with another injury for Nathan.  When we snow skiied, you could count on a major knee injury occurring.  Finally, the pain became an every day challenge.  His knees regularly give way, & he falls just walking around.  We sought opinions from several different specialists & he's been prayed for more times than I can name.  We knew God was able but seemed like surgery was going to be a must this time.  The scariest part was the recovery time of 1 year.  We finally accepted the fact that he would have to hire extra workers for his business instead of being the main guy all the time.  The dates were lining up.  We picked out a doctor.  Our insurance has even approved the procedures.  We would wait until after CHYC since he was the night speaker.  We had one empty week to rest up at home the holiday week of the 4th before the final plans would begin to take shape for him to go under the knife...
     Normal people would just relax at home & enjoy the holiday, right?  Right!  But not us...what do we do?  We unpack from a fun filled (but exhausting) week of youth camp & pack up to head north!  There was a campmeeting with a great children's church program to attend, messages from the Master to deliver, & great friends to fellowship!  Just because Nathan had an upcoming surgery, that doesn't stop him!  We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves at each church!  We were even invited to attend somewhere we had never been before only to experience the power of God touch lives through the message & move in a mighty way in the alter service.  We planned a big 4th for the kids in Helen since we were up that way.  We had tons of fun tubing, picnicking in the park, wading the mountain streams, eating ice cream, & watching an amazing firework show to boot.
     We were encouraged although the surgery seemed to loom on just ahead of us.  Everyday I could tell it stayed on Nathan's mind.  He gave in prayer requests everywhere we went. Even I dreaded going home as the days counted down for I knew what lie ahead.  One night during alter service at a church full of hundreds where we don't regularly attend or know many people, Nathan was approached by an elder gentleman asking his permission to pray for his knee during the alter service.  People were all around the alters praying with one another.  Nathan said no one else gathered around them.  The gentleman just humbly prayed for Nathan's knees.  There were no fireworks, no lightning flashes, no Hollywood sound effects, nothing.  I never even noticed myself.  Soon we all were back at our pews & dismissed.
     A few phone calls came in which called for a change in our schedule & meant for a hard Sunday.  We would now be rising extra early to pack & get the 7 of us ready in time to attend Sunday school & to minister in the morning service in a church in Athens, eat after service with friends, & hit the interstate for a 3 1/2 hour drive west to minister at a youth service in Alabama.  The only thing that made this possible was the hour we would "gain" crossing state lines.  Our minds were focused not only on carrying the messages but also on surviving our day.  At this point, all of us were over tired.  As much as we love to travel, 7 worn out passengers can make for misery.  To be openly honest, $ we had allotted to cover trip expenses were dipping way below our comfort level which also added a dose of stress.  Nothing blew up on the road though.  No one fussed.  It seemed as if a silent fog of sadness entered our van.  Disappointment came tagging along to.  We were doing everything we knew to do & our circumstances were looking bleak.  Quickly, we rolled into AL.  We rushed around in a frenzy getting everyone ready & barely made it to the service on time.  I could tell during his preaching that Nathan wasn't his usual self.  Not only had the long day taken it's toil but no doubt the upcoming days ahead worried his mind.  It was as if a great storm were brewing & we were heading into it instead of away.  After the youth service, we stayed for the supper & games in the gym.  It was after midnight before we headed off to bed.  The next morning we awoke to the frenzy of packing & loading up for the drive home.  Not much was said 'til Nathan broke the silence...
     All of a sudden it just dawned on him that his knee hadn't bothered him a bit since the man had prayed for him.  He began to tell us all what occurred.  He began reminiscing the volleyball game he participated in the night before, how he played harder than he had played in years with no pain.  Suddenly, our long faces turned into smiles of rejoicing.  Only God can do that!  He began poking where his ACL was torn & would normally cause sharp pain.  He was pain free!  Our van filled with praise!  He began calling those close to him that were keeping up with his situation to deliver the amazing news.  Our cell phones began ringing off the hook.  The 4 hour ride home seemed like no time at all.  We rejoiced together!
      Right now I am blessed to watch Nathan & all 5 of our kiddos running around playing ball in the yard.  Their laughter abounds.  He's running & falling in the grass with them.  The smiles are priceless.  It's been several weeks now & still no pain.  He's cancelled his appointments.  No need in going now.  PTL from whom ALL blessings flow!  I can't thank Him enough!  I don't understand why bad things happen but I do know a God who can handle it all!  He is more than sufficient!  He has never let us down!  Our faith is increased in Him!  Whatever you are facing, don't quit before your miracle arrives!  Today could be your breakthrough day & your life could change forever!
MIRACLES DO STILL HAPPEN!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

CHYC 2015

     Just a few pictures from our local youth camp!  We all look forward to attending!  The kids make a countdown calendar each summer in anticipation.  It's basically a full week of morning VBS classes, fun daily activities, & nightly youth services.  For the past 2 years, Nathan has been honored to be the night speaker.  This year hit a record attendance of 433!  I can't say enough wonderful things about it! What can be better than spending a week every year learning, laughing (definitely TONS of laughing), drawing closer to God, & watching hundreds of children & youth establish their relationship with Christ!?!  Nothing shy of our most amazing week of every single year!!!

Monday, June 15, 2015

Am I Settling For Simply Mediocre?

me·di·o·cre
mēdēˈōkər
adjective
  1. of only moderate quality; not very good

    synonyms:ordinary, average, middling, middle-of-the-road, uninspired,undistinguished, indifferent, unexceptional, unexciting, unremarkable, run-of-the-mill


    STOP & ask yourself the question, 
    am I settling for mediocre?  

       
     Right this second I am sitting in a beach house on Saint George Island looking across a huge porch overlooking the clear waters of the Gulf of Mexico.  I have 2 handsome little boys down for naps, an amazing husband just off the island actually being able to enjoy a break playing golf with my Daddy, & watching my girls play a fun game of wiffle ball with my sister & Mama on the beach.  I can make out their smiling faces as they run & play.  Nope, I'd quickly answer the question with a straight forward no.  Then, I challenge that thought.  Next, I certainly begin to offer up more evidence to back up my claim.  I have a free, paid for vacation down to the gas & groceries for the week.  I have eaten a boat load of America's finest foods from fresh seafood to special ordered, hand cut steaks cooked to perfection.  I have the choice of the beach, pool, or hot tub at my disposal for 7 whole days.  I have brought a New York Time's best selling Dr Phil book that I have been enjoying reading with my toes in the sand.  I can take naps (something highly unusual for me) under the shade of our beach tent or while laying out basking in the sun another of the 6 adults watch the kiddos for a while.  Even this morning as it rained we sought out the Apalachicola Nature Estuary Reserve.  This by definition is definitely both exceptional & exciting.  There is nothing mediocre about this week, but what about my usual week?  As I bask in life's blessings & finish up a workout by Tiffany Rothe on youtube, I sweep the sand tracked floors, fold laundry, & reorganize the messy 'fridge as I listen to one of my favorite motivational speakers, Larry Winslet who challenges me with this exercise:

    1~Write down EXACTLY how things are in each area of your life (in detail).  Be brutally honest!  Don't lie to yourself.

    2~Write down EXACTLY how you DESIRE things to be in each area of your life (again, in detail).  Dream BIG!

    3~Write down what you are willing to give up or do to change in order to have the life you desire!

      He begins in his own Larry way to cut to the chase & give statistics about how the vast majority of people life a mediocre lifestyle~financially, spiritually, in their home life, relationships, work, health wise, etc.  No one really ever wants to rock the boat or do whatever it takes to get ahead.  Change is difficult because fear of the unknown creeps in.  This fear is so natural that many do not even realize how powerful it is.  It cripples us.  We resist change.  We become insane... as in doing the same old things over & over again as if we expect different results or our lives to magically POOF & get instantly "better."  In reality, it's not magic or wishful thinking or repeating a great meaningful mantra.  It takes an effort to know what you want, plan how you are going to achieve it, & getting off your lazy behind to do something about it.  Most anyone can dream & complain but real success begins when you take action.  Put your own 2 feet under those dreams so they can take off!  It's that easy.  Our lives are ours & what we make of it.  Sure, uneventful things come our way.  Guess what?  That happens to everybody.  Bones break, sickness comes, diseases attack, accidents happen, people die, others are cruel, etc.  Deal with the situation but don't buy the T-shirt!  Try viewing those as our own personal chances to shine!  Sing "Overcomer" by Mandisa loud & proud.  Pick up the pieces, regroup, & continue on your right track.  This is our life & our only chance at it, no dress rehearsal going on here!  Be all that you can be!  Live your BEST life!  It was gifted to us by God & is what we make of it.  My real life example:


          During our entire day of beach packing, I fretted over what they could wear for pictures.  Several had cute "beachy" outfits.  Then no one would have anything that would really coordinate.  I finally just picked these without being fully satisfied.  On our last night on the island, it took us probably over an hour to rush everyone inside early, bathe everyone, get them dressed, etc.  I curled the girl's hair.  Finally they were all ready.  From the moment we began, the wind picked up.  The girl's hair was flying everywhere.  The boys wanted to play as they had all week out there in the sand.  No matter where we posed them, hair was swirling in circles all around their faces.  Curl was no where in sight.  Needless to say, this did not go down as I had envisioned.  Every year we take these cute, posed pictures where everyone cooperates & is usually way too matchy matchy.  Not.this.year.  I did get frustrated with the wind.  I didn't yell or loose it though because I hate myself when that happens.  I just let them play.  They all got soaking wet.  They laughed out loud.  The smiles you see here are genuine.  They have never enjoyed beach pictures this much & never have I been so proud of how they turned out (& at myself for regrouping rather calmly).  Winds blow.  That's just life.  When I learned to accept that, I moved on & the pictures turned out perfect!  
         My new prayer is this, "Lord, help me not to settle for simply mediocre.  I know you see so much more.  I want to live that extra ordinary life that you have planned out just for me!"  Anything is possible with God!  The real question is, am I willing to do what it takes???        


Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Not Always As Planned

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     Sorry for the silence lately.  To say things have not been going as planned as of lately would definitely be an understatement of understatements.  Easter surely didn't.  We went to bed with all the cute Easter clothes laid out along with the baskets of Easter prizes too.  I was struck with a pain that just wouldn't pass though.  I am no sick person.  I hardly ever take meds & surely don't visit ERs either.  Yet, this wouldn't go away.  I had fought it 3 different nights that week thinking I just came down with a bad stomach ache.  2 ER visits, doses of IV morphine, GI Dr, 4 tests, & a visit to a surgeon would reveal that my gallbladder was only functioning at 11%.  Before these episodes, I had not experienced pain like that before.  Even birthing 5 babies didn't compare.  Once they pinpointed the problem, the pain had subsided as I had been days without eating, 8 days to be exact before surgery.  The surgery itself seemed a piece of cake to me.  They rolled me in & knocked my lights out.  I woke up relieved that it was all over with.  Since I have been eating like a pig again.  ;)
     During the ordeal, special family & friends all poured in to help.  I couldn't begin to name all the names nor deeds that were done for us.  I just know that was the longest time anyone else had ever taken care of my kiddos.  They survived it all & seemed to have a great time too.  I went at least 2 weeks if not more without really cooking, cleaning, washing laundry, or anything I normally do.  I didn't run errands or grocery shop.  I didn't even change diapers or rock babies.  For the 1st time in over 12 1/2 years, I rested for days on end while someone else took care of all of that.  Yes, I did see all of my babies most everyday.  I mostly sat & visited with friends that brought food.  Finally, we had to call the help off.  We had more food than we could possibly eat!  I recuperated at my parent's cabin with no internet for those weeks.  I watched as the kids swam in the river, fished, dug in the dirt, stacked blocks, read books, played with toys, etc.  As soon as the staples were removed & I felt like it, we spent a day at the beach.  That's one blessing of living in south GA, the beach is never too far away!  This time of year, the sand, sun, water, & crab legs seem to call out our names!
     One of the things that stood out to me the most during my one & only health issue is how blessed & loved we are.  Living in a small town where everybody knows everybody & worshiping at a country church seems to usually drag around a bad rap.  Not for us!  Those that love you always show up & show out!  There wasn't anything undone nor a moment when our phones weren't ringing or dinging with messages of love & support.  Also, Nathan had 2 homecomings to preach with weeks of revival following.  Yes, in the south we still do have homecoming Sundays where church families gather in with dinner on the grounds.  Both revivals were absolutely amazing!  I can't say enough about that!  God has not failed us nor let us down as of yet!  He always takes our situations & works them for our good!  God's love is amazing & indescribable!  I have seen Him move just for our family in a mighty way this year like never before!  PTL :)
     Now, I am feeling a lot like "myself."  My incisions have all healed up.  I am back to our normal routine.  I can pick up & carry my kiddos around again.  We have even been playing games of family kickball together in the afternoons right out in our yard, enjoying the spring weather together.  I hope you too are blessed with beautiful spring weather!  Our formal school lessons here are all finished up.  We are looking forward to a week with my family at St George Island really soon, our local youth camp where Nathan is honored to be the night speaker again, & an upcoming trip to the mountains later this summer!  I think we should go make countdown calendars...the best is yet to come!